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Sophi1616 - 09 Aug, 2025 - 02:12PM

I’ve got a d**k pic catalogue that could rival Argos at Christmas!!!

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Paula99 - 09 Aug, 2025 - 10:17AM

Very funny …..🙄

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laugar164 - 09 Aug, 2025 - 09:23AM

Paula I forgot to say I bring the essential camera for bird watching only 😂

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laugar164 - 09 Aug, 2025 - 09:21AM

Paula 99 running to the hills shall I bring a tent or a hammock 😉

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Paula99 - 29 May, 2025 - 05:38AM

Picture hunters are a scourge of online dating …there are people that constantly take pictures of themselves and expect others to reciprocate…..unfortunately they have arose from a generation that thinks it’s ok to take images/record others and pass it over the internet..
This makes me run for the hills because I have my boundaries …utilised them for my personal needs and not because ‘everyone is doing it ‘ …

Pakman100..

Great post ….moderation is the key

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Pakman100 - 28 May, 2025 - 02:52PM

I’ve had long, meaningful affairs without ever sharing my last name or where I work. It’s proof that trust and intimacy don’t require full disclosure — just honesty, consistency, and respect.

Having been stalked in the past, I’m especially careful now. I don’t share personal identifiers early on, and often not at all. Discretion isn’t just about protecting myself — it’s about respecting both lives involved.

That said, I still value depth. You can have strong emotional and physical connection without compromising safety. If someone needs full access to your real-world identity to feel close, they’re probably not the right fit for this space.

Boundaries don’t kill chemistry. In my experience, they protect it.

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DramaFree&Easy - 17 May, 2025 - 06:02PM

Cheryl Kim

My initial thought was that guy was broadcasting also. He most likely has a high opinion of himself and enjoys taking selfies all the time. Personally I couldn’t think of any faster way of getting blocked! Some mornings I just don’t look myself until the second coffee has kicked in at around 11am.

Catfishing is the weirdest online dating faux pas though. If that ever happens to me again, I’m going to save the embarrassment and just reverse catfish and pretend to be someone else and get out of there pronto.

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DramaFree&Easy - 17 May, 2025 - 05:44PM

@Paula

I’m merely interested in the matter, I’m certainly not advocating for those who haven’t got much further in life than collecting football stickers. There should however be a balance.

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Cheryl Kim - 17 May, 2025 - 09:21AM

DramaFree&Easy

The same type of photos every day, with the same words. It’s as if it’s 9am, and picture distribution time to all and sundry. Not that I mind, nor complaining. I am just saying it is unnecessary.

Btw it is easy to catfish, even with multiple photos. Sending multiple photos doesn’t guarantee a meet either. Anybody who knows me will know that I am no prude, but it is obvious when they want to see more and more, that a proper meet in person, for genuine affair partner making purposes, is the last thing on their minds.

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Paula99 - 17 May, 2025 - 07:46AM

Drama and easy…..ooops sorry free

So you think that sending lots of pictures every day is going to get the other person more interested?…to me it just proves that you don’t care about discretion and in my experience it leads to more ‘definitive ‘ images ..
Why should I stake my privacy on some random guy who was clearly sharing his body pictures with other woman ….I call that reckless..

As Cheryl Kim says all those images are unnecessary

Remember images are never deleted and the less of me on the internet the better..

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