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laugar164 - 16 May, 2025 - 07:31PM

Dream free and easy
There's more to starting a relationship then just pictures it takes patience understanding to develop a relationship that's going to work and last

DramaFree&Easy - 16 May, 2025 - 07:19PM

@Paula99

Why only 1 pic? If you’ve revealed your image then what difference does another pic or two make?

Someone I was chatting with on here a while ago started asking for pictures of me at work etc throughout the day.. I wasn’t keen on that tbh. However, I lose interest if I’m receiving minimal conversation and no photos to create intrigue.

Paula99 - 16 May, 2025 - 05:03PM

I recently had an experience on here …I was chatting to a guy and I explained that I can’t chat all the time and it does stare in my profile …. He was sending me pictures not nudity but I just thought hmmm this is way to much for me …I sent him one picture of me which he liked …I didn’t hear from him for 3 days so I sent a message to ask if he wanted to continue….then he said that he had been sharing pictures of other women ( of which I wasn’t concerned)… but it was all too quick for me …he said the other women were ‘sharing more ‘ so I replied .. not discreet enough for me and good luck with that idea and goodbye ….

He will be back 🙄

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sherylgom889 - 16 May, 2025 - 02:54PM

I am new as well ,I hope to find someone soon

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MagicMouse321 - 07 May, 2025 - 08:51PM

Much like GDPR …any information which, directly or indirectly, could identify me: Surname, address, phone number are the classics I don’t share.

Other than that anything goes. I’m really happy to share everything else.

(Just don’t want someone turning up on my door step, or sending cards etc)

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marklondonengland - 07 May, 2025 - 06:28PM

@EmnEm123
You are exactly right - it would concern me a lot more if someone insisted on talking on the phone, rather than switching to an app... should we use a rotary dial as well?

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EmnEm123 - 07 May, 2025 - 05:50PM

New-Lover

I wouldn't share all of my personal details with anyone from here either. However, I don't see the problem with moving to an app, it's easier than here and you don't have to exchange telephone numbers.

New-Lover - 07 May, 2025 - 02:55PM

I have never given my full details to anyone from this site. I give generalised details. If pushed, I am honest and explain I am in no rush and want to get to know a man in time not all in one hit and if they suggest moving to a chat app I instantly feel uncomfortable. I would much prefer to talk on the phone when ready x

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Dave 2025 - 07 May, 2025 - 12:41PM

In my limited experience of being on this site I would say we are all wanting discretion in this virtual room, hopefully leading to face to face meeting.
I've probably been too open with some , and have worried about the consequences.
So my trust in some of the people on the site is now a cautious one . I don't venture off the site when encouraged to do so , I now only share non specific details in the event someone wanted to take my identity. It's a shame in some ways as you want to be open and honest to build trust and that bond.
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boav91 - 27 Apr, 2025 - 07:58AM

So when you first meet someone it is probably unwise to share everything. You do need to give away some honest details if you are not a player as let’s be fair, if you say you are a fit 30 year old and turn out to be 60 with a beer belly it is not going to help the sustainability of the relationship.

As the relationship with you grows, then trust will grow too. I think there are broadly two groups of relationships on here, those that last a short time and are not more than filling a sexual need and once done people move on , the second type is where a second relationship develops. In the latter you develop feelings and trust and there it will not be real if you keep things hidden. In the former type you don’t really need to say too much as that is not what you are there for. In those have a nice meet, have sex and move on.

I had the former type once and it was fun, but I now have the second and it is amazing, there is total trust and disclosure and that makes it special.

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