What do we really disclose?
Meeting a new person is always exciting. However most of us are meeting illicitly. What are your boundaries when disclosing personal details? Do we reveal our full names, places of work, give details about our family? What type of information are you willing to share? How much is too much?
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ItalianStrongBull - 16 Jan, 2025 - 04:16PM
Hello, who want to chat a little bit with an italian strong man living in IE?
HotMess2025 - 16 Jan, 2025 - 04:11PM
Living in rural East Hampshire, I start off at the county level and nearest town/city. If I actually said closer than that, it would narrow me down to half a dozen dwellings!
Nearest town/city is enough to be able to arrange meets and I wouldnt expect to know more than this and wouldn't ask myself, I dont need to know.
Longer term as you build trust you obviously find out all kinds of secrets but I would never tell a soul, they are going to the grave with me!
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Unwoke! - 16 Jan, 2025 - 01:53PM
At first, the bare minimum. But as the relationship develops and mutual trust starts to build I'll share more.
I'd expect similar in return.
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Three Little Words - 16 Jan, 2025 - 12:20PM
I’m generally ok with revealing my first name, what info for a living in a fairly generic way and what my home situation is. Anything more than that comes with trust and “need to know”. Of course, you need something to talk about and you can do this in a way that doesn’t reveal too much of your pets details.
Chatting on WhatsApp can result in details appearing on Facebook/instagram, but this can be limited if you’re aware of the privacy controls on those apps.
Unhappyhousewife1 - 16 Jan, 2025 - 09:42AM
I think everyone on here signed up with a bit of worry about being "discovered " , personally I only disclose certain details after a few chats and a connection built.
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Londonstories - 29 Oct, 2023 - 09:07AM
To be honest, the level of disclosure depends on the connection you have with someone. In this community, many women will ask you upfront about your occupation and residence as a way to assess your character.
On the other hand, there are some who may request your password and, if they don't like what they see, they'll disappear without acknowledging the interaction. It's ironic because they claim to be kind and sensible. 😂😂
Based on my experiences, I've learned to be cautious about revealing too much initially. However, once a genuine connection is established, I have no issue sharing my situation and information. Honesty brings stability, and truth instills confidence in both parties involved.😊
I hope everyone will get what they are seeking.
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ExoticOrchid - 29 Oct, 2023 - 08:32AM
P41 - 01:11AM
If someone knows your name, where you live and what you do that's pretty all they need to find out ALL about you/your life in this day and age therefore how does that "protect" you though? 🤔
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1629944 - 29 Oct, 2023 - 01:11AM
If we click, and if we are scheduling a meeting, he will know my name, where I live and what I do, but nothing to much as still want to protect myself
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