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JerseyGuy - 22 Aug, 2024 - 01:17PM

The obvious and foolproof way is to meet up. I can usually suss someone out face to face with 30 seconds...

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1610442 - 21 Aug, 2024 - 11:05AM

Massage on app Phone chat FaceTime coffee in that order then meet have a snog decision to Bin or Keep job done 👍 lol

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Funtimes258 - 20 Aug, 2024 - 09:10PM

I would do a couple of video chats before to get a feeling and then meet. Always trust your gut.

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Bacchus111 - 20 Aug, 2024 - 08:42PM

I think the best way is to just have a telephone conversation before meeting. That will allow you to moderate your expectations and reduce the anxiety when you do meet

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Life is a beach - 18 Aug, 2024 - 12:01AM

You get an idea when you start chatting to the person, however, you don't know until you meet them.
I met a couple of people after chatting to them, they were very nice but they weren't for me.
I started chatting to my now IE, I had that gut feeling about him. It was only cemented when I met him.
Trust your gut feelings and certify them by meeting the person

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LifeExplorerAZ - 17 Aug, 2024 - 10:17PM

Let’s see what might happen. We had a great chat online, decided to meet and the partner suddenly cannot hold a conversation.

Maybe they got nervous. It happens to the best at times.

Maybe they used AI to write their chat messages and in real life suddenly don’t have this assistance handy.

Did we wasted time? Potentially. If all other things are good then maybe we’ll even give this another chance!

During an online chat our brain creates an expectation. When we meet in person these expectations might hinder our chances. We should bear this in mind too.

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1691370 - 17 Aug, 2024 - 09:34PM

You have no idea. So meet. The reverse is clearer though - if they are a dud online it’s probably going to be worse in real life.

MDB2012 - 17 Aug, 2024 - 09:18PM

Is this place actually good? I am keen to subscribe so I can interact but sceptical

1408586 - 17 Aug, 2024 - 08:35PM

Ha ha I get you. I think we all have to accept when we have sex it may turn out to be a one time thing? But there’s no reason to feel pressured into sex on the first meet for example.

Although if you have the problem of lots of women after ONS from you on here… some would say there are worse issues in life 😉😂

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Tryssic - 17 Aug, 2024 - 08:28PM

Sorry, my mistake Becky, I'm getting a bit tied up. I should have said 'someone (either sex) trying to scam their way...', as in trying to behave in a way they think you want them to be just to have a one night stand, unless that's what you're after.
Come to think of it, I may be confusing myself.