Is one IE enough?
How many on here have actually been completely monogamous with their IE?
How many have cheated (if that's a thing) on their IE with another (or multiple) IE?
Were you honest with your IE?
And how many still have any sort of sexual relationship with their spouse?
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Levi444 - 23 May, 2020 - 10:34PM
I was always faithful to my previous partner and now I’m looking for someone long term as my previous partner moved on
1382828 - 23 May, 2020 - 10:18PM
Just the one special friend, and the trust comes when you both wish to give it a go. So yes I would be monogamous with my IE. You know when someone is into you so only fair to give them a chance and for you to be in return. But then some may think differently and have different motives. I am sure they can be seen a mile off..
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Fromthestart - 23 May, 2020 - 09:41PM
Songbird478 -
When does an IE become your IE? When you’ve chatted for X amount of days? When you’ve met? When you’ve had sex?
This is something that I've wondered about too.
I have the right to ask for my IE to be monogamous with me?
However I've spoken to one IE who was horrified that I was talking to other men as well as him even though we had only been talking for less than a day. Am i expected to only talk to one man at a time?
As for a sexual relationship with my spouse I wish there was but that side going is what made me come here
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1338297 - 23 May, 2020 - 08:58PM
Always had an exclusive affair. For a start I’m too busy. I don’t have the time for multiple partners.
Personally I feel this is safer. Nobody wants to get caught or messed about.
The flirty banter in between meets. The build up. The planning. Could only do this with one guy!
I also take this very seriously. I’m not out to hurt anyone. It should be fun. A friend with benefit and sex gets better with time.
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Chelseaguy12 - 23 May, 2020 - 06:38PM
Fucking for the sake of it isnt big or clever
Might be some deeper rooted problem
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gemini2310 - 23 May, 2020 - 06:38PM
Who knows when an IE is cheating on there IE they can tell each other what they want to hear and at the end of the day they can do what they want there not even ours only for a short time when both can meet I like all exclusive but that's just me each to there own I say
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MatureWorcsBBW - 23 May, 2020 - 05:48PM
Well, I'm certainly not going to turn down sex with my partner. But I won't be shouting it from the rooftops for everyone to know, except to you lovely people. Hope you can keep it a secret. 😉😂
I've got absolutely no intention of promising to only meet one gentleman for intimacy especially if it's only possible to meet that person three times a year.
To me, it's pointless to say that you can cheat on your IE. You're not in a traditional committed relationship. I don't understand why you would expect fidelity. But I understand why you might like the idea of it, one man, only needing to be with you. The reality is usually very different, I think.
No man on here has asked me to be faithful to him. I couldn't promise that I would be. And if I did, how easy would it be to break that promise and he would never know.
Sometimes I think that the less we know, the less we worry about.
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