Did anybody else...
Did anybody else join IE because their partner cheated on them first? Originally I was bitter and mad, and wanted to get some sort of secret revenge. But now I kind of get it, the whole affair thing. I almost feel cheated that I had stayed faithful for 17 years, oh well, they do say that life begins in your 40's 😝
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Mews0001 - 12 Jun, 2020 - 03:39PM
OrientalAngel80
I've told my wife the exact same thing. Maybe we should introduce them to each other and we can have as much fun with each other with impunity! Haha
You are bang on about this site being beneficial. My problem is that I've yet to find a woman to be beneficial with! :-(
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Mews0001 - 12 Jun, 2020 - 02:09PM
I did the same with my husband. I told him that when he works away I don't care if he has sex with another woman. I told him I don't want him waking up one day and feeling like he has missed out as I'm only the second woman he has had sex with - as long it doesn't impact our marriage financially and he practices safe sex.
He says I keep him drained enough without needing to look elsewhere 🙈
Of course he doesn't know that I already have strayed but I think that seeing how much release I get from here I feel it allows insight into how beneficial it can be.
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MatureWorcsBBW - 12 Jun, 2020 - 03:16PM
Personally speaking, if I was having an affair within the marriage, I would never ever, ever, ever confess it to my husband, knowing that my confession could be used against me in the divorce courts.
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Mews0001 - 12 Jun, 2020 - 02:19PM
Onlyt55
Lucky man. I wish my wife was that understanding. I guess the problem is she still enjoys sex with me, albeit VERY vanilla :-(
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1388461 - 12 Jun, 2020 - 02:12PM
I have been married for 40 years (married at 19) and never cheated until after the wife went through menopause and said she no longer wanted sex, we talked and I told her I still needed sex and intimacy and she said it was ok if I see someone else just not to talk about it or bring anyone home.
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Mews0001 - 12 Jun, 2020 - 02:11PM
P.S. If any women have been in similar situations with their partners, please get in touch because he's probably a cuck or a cuck in waiting ;-)
1334304 - 12 Jun, 2020 - 02:11PM
Yes, but also out of curiosity that if others felt that life could be more exciting and if they also felt the need to have more attention and passion! And thankfully it turned out to be the case on a very large scale! He was the catalyst for me finding IE and I’ve never had so much fun!🥂😁
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Mews0001 - 12 Jun, 2020 - 02:09PM
HaHa. Quite the opposite. In fact, I've said to my wife on several occasions that she is free to have an affair if she wants (possibly to make me feel better about me having them, I accept).
However, each time she has said she doesn't want to and that I'm enough for her.
Whilst that is very sweet of her, I do hope she doesn't end up regretting it!
We've been married a very long time!
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Suzanna Foxwell - 12 Jun, 2020 - 01:45PM
guys, girls, everyone cheats. or would if they could get away with it. otherwise why live really....?
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Teresa di Vicenzo - 12 Jun, 2020 - 12:58PM
I actually do not believe my husband has ever cheated on me. However I’ve cheated on him a few times during our 30+ year marriage. I have no idea how he’d react if he found out; I do think about that. I really don’t believe he’d have a Revenge Affair - but if he did it wouldn’t last long - 3 minutes, tops .. 😂🙄
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