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laugar164 - 25 Jan, 2024 - 04:12PM

There is a thrill about having an affair but I don't go into an affair just seeking a thrill it's more about meeting someone who wants the same as me and understands the risk
And rewards

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Phil9999 - 25 Jan, 2024 - 12:45PM

The secrecy and the thrill of the chase is awesome. x

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1645347 - 24 Jan, 2024 - 08:50PM

I was here years ago. Th buzz you get when you meet up with someone and it progresses to a meaningful FWB friendship is fantastic.

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Sajaralu - 24 Jan, 2024 - 05:18PM

Yes I do

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1586130 - 24 Jan, 2024 - 01:47PM

No. I hate the secrecy.

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Marlen - 23 Jan, 2024 - 01:05PM

It may be the case for some people, but for others, me included, the affair is about seeking what you're missing.....not the thrill of being naughty!.

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LadyDe - 22 Jan, 2024 - 08:13PM

Some of you might know from previous posts that I’m in an Open Marriage ..

Paula99… this hasn’t opened up a can of negative worms, we see it as an add on to our relationship, something that we can’t always get from each other, as we’ve been together for 22yrs, I’m sorry but pretending we don’t know each other in a bar and chatting each other up basically doesn’t cut the thrill and excitement we wanted ..we are always “open” that’s the key, you need ground rules. For us we always say when we’re going or seeing them, we don’t share intimate detail because that’s our own escapism’s. The thrill works for us, how long for who knows, obviously people don’t know our back story and how we are, but for us it’s great and enhances our marriage, oh I might add we don’t join together it’s very much a separate thing 🤭
It only works because of
Communication
Communication
Communication

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1639246 - 22 Jan, 2024 - 07:16PM

Yes….reality gets in the way doesn’t it. Every day in fact 😆

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Catherine - 22 Jan, 2024 - 07:05PM

Hey x

Paula99 - 22 Jan, 2024 - 06:41PM

Given a ‘license ‘ to take a lover just opens a can of worms…we humans are a complicated bunch and there is no ‘one size fits all answer..
If you are a couple and you both want to do this and you have an agreement then it can work…the issue with this is will one person start seeing their lover with out telling their partner and this is enough to cause a rift between the couple involved..you find out your husband/wife wants to be with their lover more than you …this creates anxiety..jealousy and mistrust…the seed of doubt has been sown…
What starts off as an exciting prospect in your marriage becomes the end of it …in some cases .

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