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Would Using Lube Make You Feel Inadequate?

Do you take lube on your hotel meets? When women get to a certain age, they sometimes need a bit of help in the lubrication department due to hormones and the menopause. Have you used lube? Do you expect lube? Would you, as a man, be offended if lube was used?

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1473584 - 23 Mar, 2022 - 11:50AM

Lube is a great foreplay aid too it’s not just about penetration….. especially if you use toys 😉.

I use it all the time and trust me being wet isn’t an issue for me, it just adds to the pleasure x

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Fluffy Sunshine - 22 Mar, 2022 - 08:29AM

I’d forgotten the lube once with my partner at the time who liked a strap on . I made do with shampoo that was provided by the hotel. He got in a bit of a lather.

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Macali76 - 22 Mar, 2022 - 07:42AM

Looking4my 50 shades

Your a convert to bum play? Don't mind bum.play it's erotic as you said.

Anything that enhances your sexual experiences is welcomed

Lube, toys or whatever tickles your fancy 🤣🤣


1117169 - 21 Mar, 2022 - 11:01PM

I always do. The sump gasket on my 40 year old hearing aid beige Ford Fiesta 1.1 has become leaky and I keep 5L of Car Plan 20/50 in the boot so I can keep it topped up.

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1512065 - 21 Mar, 2022 - 09:34PM

Use what's needed for both of you x


Looking4my50shades - 20 Mar, 2022 - 04:39PM

Omg always have lube on hand, you never know where things might lead too, it's not everyone's cup of tea but bum play can be erotic and fun but lube is needed


Sandokan1900 - 20 Mar, 2022 - 08:55AM

As long as i can have a fun, who cares


kindpassion - 18 Mar, 2022 - 11:51AM

I wouldn’t be offended, I bring it with me as a matter of course. Nothing to do with age, more a question of width 😅. Anything that helps anybody enjoy the moment has got to be good !

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1418715 - 16 Mar, 2022 - 03:57PM

I might be a bit soft in the head.....
If a woman reached for the lube it would be probably leave me overwhelmed and besotted.... 🤣😂
Any woman who has that level of confidence in her body and being who has taken a portion of her time to spend with me to be that close is going to be leaving me helpless with desire...
It's not about the lube, it's about the practicalities of making things work to the benefit of both involved.... Confidence is an intoxicating aphrodisiac.....

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Paula99 - 15 Mar, 2022 - 09:10PM

If you want great sex then does it matter what you use ...the important thing is communication..good sex is vital but great sex is a work in progress..😊

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