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1408586 - 24 Mar, 2023 - 09:08PM

@DJL1174

I’m normally a fan of jeans/t shirt but I personally think you might take a better photo wearing a shirt or suit. And smiling more! Could be wrong but worth experimenting

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1587581 - 24 Mar, 2023 - 08:50PM

Miss Cheif 76.

The dynamic of IE effectively means an overtly sexual profile such as your will generate a lot of interest, much of it unwanted I suspect.

I imagine if a male member (snigger) wrote something in a similar vein it would likely be counterproductive. It seems difficult enough to ignite conversations to start with as a decent man with a pretty decent profile.

IE is controlled by the fairer sex. They are innundated and are in control of who is responded to. It is what it is.

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1408586 - 24 Mar, 2023 - 08:35PM

I agree @Acpk55

I prefer positivity in describing what you’re after and negativity is a definite no for me.

I’m not too fussed on longer or shorter profiles, both give an insight into what a person is like.

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1554570 - 24 Mar, 2023 - 08:21PM

I think too much text is much of an issue as too little, lots of people are put off when confronted with a wall of text .
The thing I noticed it lots of women put nothing in for what sort of person they are looking for, that’s just a bit lazy really, and some women use lots of negativity, to disqualify men, that’s really off putting, rather then using positivity to highlight what they are looking for.

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FluffyClouds - 24 Mar, 2023 - 06:22PM

Personally for me, a short profile is a bit of a turn off, unless it's funny or amusing in some way. I'd rather see some information I can work with, draw on to discuss, make a decision on whether we might be a good fit. I don't want to have to go through a long discussion to wheedle out some of the basics which for me are availability, frequency and what type of affair you're wanting.

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1565417 - 24 Mar, 2023 - 06:12PM

Miss Chief 76

I bet the number of profile views you’ve got has just gone through the roof. 🤣🤣🤣

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1483842 - 24 Mar, 2023 - 05:50PM

I'm complimented on my profile all the time. It's because it's honest and detailed. Rather than talk of my attributes, I talk of intimacy and sex. I talk of what I really want, what makes me tick, what excites me, what I prefer, my availability, boundaries and expectations. I want chemistry, lust, a connection intellectually and intelligently. I describe experiences I've had and what I want more of. I talk of desires. I want a sexually charged encounter. A lover that I can be my true sexual self with. I'm not looking for a husband or boyfriend or pal. Sex is such a massive part of me and my life and I'm not ashamed to say it and ask for what I want. I want laughter, anticipation and raw primal sex. If you are a man, a tip may be that you read womens profiles and when you see/read what resonates with what you can bring to an affair, build a profile based on what you can offer. I suggest you dont actually know yet, and that is why you can't articulate anything, draw from previous lovers. Open up. Good luck

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1529050 - 24 Mar, 2023 - 03:12PM

DJL1174 - 24 Mar, 2023 - 01:11PM

Seriously I am not expert in this but one thing straight away your age range 21-99 - if i was you I would narrow that down - I mean do you really want a 21 year old or a 99 year old - be realistic.

Being separated does not work for everyone but it does for others so that is fine saying that.

I think you need to think about what you are looking for... Your photo is you - very natural so I wouldn't necessarily change that.

These things do take time and we are not all each others cups of tea but you will be someone's ... just might not happen overnight.

Others might have some more constructive advice - Good luck!

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1562804 - 24 Mar, 2023 - 01:11PM

I'm relatively new to the site ( 2 weeks ) and find it difficult to write a good profile description, and even writing about what type of women I'm looking for.
Likewise I'm not overly confident or attractive, and hate my photo being taken or taking a photo of myself, I find it difficult to get much attention or the 'not for me'
answer.
Any suggestions?

1529050 - 24 Mar, 2023 - 11:47AM

Zyphod - 24 Mar, 2023 - 11:09AM

Great profile to be fair - esp the photo made me snort !!

Like you pointed out it is good to have something on each other's profile that you can pick out and comment on - an icebreaker.

Eejit69 - 24 Mar, 2023 - 11:32AM

When I was looking I did not update mine - why do you feel the need to (not checked it out). I guess the traffic problem could be where you are based etc ?? not sure.

When my profile was active and live, I did keep it fairly short as I wanted to find out more on private chats. To be honest if I see a long essay it just switch off, and all the usual clichés - I am not looking to rock boats, I am happily married blah blah blah.

I like something a bit funny, to the point and peaks my interest - NOT the automated ones .... JUST NO NO NO NO and NO

Happy hunting :)

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