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Here we go 693 - 28 May, 2025 - 11:11PM

I can see this getting a little off topic. The whole issue of how much is too much is dependent on how long you have been seeing your IE. I both gave and received solace from my IE as time progressed. It wasn't always about their spouse, sometimes it related to things at work or other issues that troubled them. Not sure what this has to do with PB's and bunnies!!!

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Paula99 - 28 May, 2025 - 08:29PM

There is nothing wrong with being the best you can be …whatever exercise you choose to do …but being great in the gym doesn’t make you great in bed ….just makes you more flexible and comfortable in our own skin…
As for the people that think it’s acceptable to ‘let themselves’ go and criticise others for taking responsibility….. good luck with that one

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Cheryl Kim - 28 May, 2025 - 08:01PM

I rather enjoy talking about PB and further training tips actually. Among a whole host of other topics. And no, an obsessed gym bunny isn’t typing this post - we don’t need to be, to take care of ourselves.

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EmnEm123 - 28 May, 2025 - 01:22PM

Areyoufee?

There is nothing wrong with people keeping themselves in shape. If you don’t that’s on you. Don’t criticise others for not wanting to meet with someone that doesn’t take care of themselves.That’s twice you have commented/complained about gym bunnies!

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Areyoufee? - 27 May, 2025 - 11:20AM

Never got to that stage yet, seeing someone on here is saying I know this exiats otherwise you would be trying to meet a gym bunny and discussing your PB as your only topic of conversation.

Pakman100 - 26 May, 2025 - 09:14AM

It’s too much when the weight of their world lands before the first coffee.
We’ve all got stories, but there’s a time and a place. If the first few chats turn into a therapy session about their partner, kids, or regrets, it kills the mood fast. Chemistry needs space to breathe. Lightness before layers.

Not saying depth isn’t welcome - it is. But lead with curiosity, not crisis.

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AdventurousLover2 - 24 May, 2025 - 08:34AM

Yes it’s huge turn off to be a sounding board for someone’s failings and plain rude too .One must be in good form wheh chafing to someone for the first time.

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Black Gent - 21 May, 2025 - 09:24AM

It can be a downer to be used a a cheap therapist. I suppose some men would use it as a dating strategy to appear to be very sympathetic but that is not my style. We are all accountable for our life choices.

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Caroline Red - 20 May, 2025 - 10:19PM

there's nothing more of a turn off than someone who complains about their partner and their life. i am not your counsellor or your therapist. having said that if anyone wants to role play that scenario using a leather couch i am up for that one..

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Bikerdude69 - 20 May, 2025 - 09:09PM

That's where unfortunately the conversation will end , we've all got so called baggage but we're all here for a bit of an escape