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What are the best chat up lines?

Hi,

I'm new here and I'm torn between sending a catchy chat up line or something a bit more personal. Any advice which works best? 

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SirrahNek - 19 Mar, 2025 - 07:33AM

Chat up lines are so passé. They’re supposed to be funny, but all to often they just come off as being a bit tragic.

But a well crafted profile… Some of the ladies here have put real care and thought into those profiles, and even if they don’t match me (too far, I’m too old (or too young), or too something else) they’re great entertainment. Maybe there should be a “best of” page, for the most voted for and finely honed profiles?

Or maybe everyone is now cringing at the thought of being featured in such a way!


1748616 - 17 Mar, 2025 - 12:30PM

Well if you are young enough for the ladies here I am sure yu can find the best words! If you are over 60 resign yourself to your pipe, slippers and cocoa as you wont get much interest!


1748341 - 14 Mar, 2025 - 09:16PM

Look for commonalities between your and their profile and mention them in your message. Keep it relatively short and ask them to read your profile and to message back if they’re interested in finding out more about each other

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1717752 - 14 Mar, 2025 - 08:38PM

In the words/song lyrics of the late, great David Bowie, 'Let's dance....'.

In other words, find your rhythm and flow.

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marklondonengland - 14 Mar, 2025 - 07:13PM

Chat up lines are something that used to exist in Carry On films... this is 2025


tmn2024 - 14 Mar, 2025 - 06:08PM

Chat up lines suitable for IE? Not sure chat up lines work in this realm to be honest.

But if you ever spot someone in a bar or whatever, walk over to her/him and say "my friend over there wants me to ask you if you think I'm good looking". And watch for the double take 😂


Hanson04 - 14 Mar, 2025 - 05:15PM

Hi there, I am new here. So would like to say hello to everyone

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1757504 - 14 Mar, 2025 - 04:43PM

Great question, and absolutely no idea! 😂 I’m also new at this & struggle with the non face to face nature of this communication, there are no non verbal cues which would direct any ‘chat up line’ or introduction, and equally direct you away from even bothering simply by observing characteristics & social behaviour etc.
I do wonder if the timing of whatever is said initially is the most influential factor & relies entirely on luck by virtue of respective mindsets at time of making 1st contact…
Who knows, but this malarkey is a flippin’ minefield that’s for sure! Good luck everyone!

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Paula99 - 14 Mar, 2025 - 02:59PM

SirrahNek..

It was just a joke …lighten up 😊

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SirrahNek - 14 Mar, 2025 - 02:44PM

Paula99

weather/politics and religion - dear god no! And sex seems a bit forward, even here!

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