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Ethan_Teller - 04 Jul, 2022 - 07:11PM

I was never into glove puppets before I had an affair with a woman who worked in local theatre. At first, it was difficult to get used to.all the Punch and Judy noises during sex (and I really hated it when she shouted 'That's The Way To Do It' at the end....but, like I said, life-changing.

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ExoticOrchid - 04 Jul, 2022 - 06:41PM

Enigma - 02:40PM

Absolutely.
When I was married and my husband was having affairs, I could always tell because his habits changed.

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Enigma.. - 04 Jul, 2022 - 02:40PM

The thing with changing your lifestyle or habit's when you start an affair is… does it make your other half become suspicious?
One of my ex partners, out of the blue, started watching certain programs on tv that he had not been interested in before. I discovered a couple of books about various artists that he had no previous interest in, in a cupboard. He joined a gym and there were a couple of other changes as well.
I grew suspicious and finally one night I confronted him. He admitted he was having an affair. A week later I found out who with.
This was several years ago and we are no longer together. His “girlfriend” and her husband are now divorced. Both the husband and I have moved on for the better.
Just pointing out that sudden changes in lifestyle, habits and/or changing your looks/style can/could lead to suspicion and getting caught out….

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Skippy2222 - 04 Jul, 2022 - 02:26PM

Hi All.. new to the chats but…. Being able to look at myself and finally be honest with what’s missing in my life.

We all get on with our lives but its not till we look back or we come to here and we realise life’s past us by. Being on here puts you in control of your life choices, we don’t have to settle for just our current relationship or lack of intimacy

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1509010 - 04 Jul, 2022 - 12:01PM

I value honesty especially in a place like this but @Diana84's "guy" should have stated that he was only interested in sex and not listening or giving a shit about her problems.
Let's be honest from the start.
Diana84, can we spend the hotel money you saved on a manipedi? Or you can spend on a nice, hot stone message, I find it better than sex.

EmnEm123 - 03 Jul, 2022 - 10:06PM

Diana84

When you have all your issues sorted contact him and ask if he has a friend who isn't as big a twat as him!

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ExoticOrchid - 02 Jul, 2022 - 04:46PM

No wonder men aren't "honest" about things here ... 🤣

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Paula99 - 02 Jul, 2022 - 03:35PM

Diana 84..

Put it down to experience...

You found out the hard way but at least you know...what a complete arsehole ?

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Delicious Chaos - 02 Jul, 2022 - 01:56PM

Diana84

Where were you staying, The Ritz?
I’ve never heard such a thing. A hotel contact in you by phone to see if you wanted an upgrade. That’s not to say it doesn’t happen.
Don’t use your actual telephone number would be my advice to you. Most hotels communicate via email.

The bloke…well I give him a gold star for his honesty but I hope you told him to go do his own leg work

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Diana84 - 02 Jul, 2022 - 01:39PM

I have just had to share my experience…..I am shocked.
After chatting we decided to meet , it was obvious we were both looking for the same thing and definitely not wanting to rock anyone’s lifestyle.
Anyway it all went pear shaped after our first meet……..the hotel I booked for our next meet rang me to offer me a king size room ……this while I’m at home with my husband. Obviously he was suspicious as much as I tried to deny the call was for me.
Then I had damage to my car so waiting for replacement . Plus a couple of other blips. It just seems one thing after another so it was decided to lie low for a while.
So today he’s agreed on that and asked if I had a friend interested in meeting him while I was sorting my problems out. WHAT ! That desperate ? And shows his true colours ?

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