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1530881 - 26 Jun, 2022 - 04:38PM

Getting in touch with my inner self. Sounds corny but I’ve found out a lot more about me and got closer spiritually to myself and others. So more of a spiritual thing for me

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Stephen wolverhampton - 26 Jun, 2022 - 03:00PM

I have to say that it is a fantastic feeling when you meet up and make your partner excited and you know that you are both going to enjoy the evening. It doesn't happen every time but it is really nice when it does. I think that it is my job to entertain and excite my partner

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Stephen wolverhampton - 26 Jun, 2022 - 02:57PM

Hi there everyone

1529332 - 26 Jun, 2022 - 01:54PM

Reading through it seems just like life in general everyone has different opinions and needs, in different situations and stages in life.
Firstly it's us all appreciating and respecting that.
In my experience, there is a lot of pressure around sex. It seems most of the issues does stem around not being satisfied, either by meaningless sex or none at all. This leads to moans and groans about anything and everything where there is a chink in the relationship, and we all have them however big or small.

Having an affair can me a short term escape from time to time. It should be with someone who can understand your both in a similar situation. Or maybe you just want sex, that it is easy as you could go anywhere for that.

What I have learned from an affair is to make sure my husband is being looked after on a regular basis so he doesn't wonder. We now talk openly about each others needs. So I use my affairs as therapy..... each to there own

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1493631 - 26 Jun, 2022 - 01:13PM

An affair through IE and meeting ladies on that journey taught me that so many people, men and women are trapped in relationships that just don’t work. Don’t work in so many way - a lack of respect, courtesy within the relationship and of course sex.

Without going down the sex route too much, I have been amazed how many ladies who are lacking in that regard at home but have so much to give a lover.

A time honoured cliche, but I never cease to be amazed at how many ladies have so much to give but don’t get that respect at home

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1117169 - 31 Mar, 2022 - 08:57AM

@Paula

Its a bit like being on holiday. You can concentrate on each other, spend time doing what you both really want to do, try new things and experiences and focus on fun and pleasure rather than the mundane baggage, routine and over familiarity that is inevitably and unavoidably part and parcel of home life.

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Paula99 - 24 Mar, 2022 - 09:22PM

Having an affair changes your perception on everything...you are on the outside looking in and you can make an informed choice...without all of the drama of a normal relationship.👍

1473584 - 24 Mar, 2022 - 08:45AM

Change of attitudes, being more emotionally in tune with my own needs came out of having my affair. Now if there’s something that turns me off with someone’s behaviour I run a mile - no one needs to be surrounded by negative behaviour life is too short x

Paula99 - 12 Feb, 2022 - 06:07AM

Key of life

I don't think taking up fitness has got anything to do with divorce. I had a stressful job and I took up running and the feel good factor you get from being out in the fresh air is fantastic.
You do meet other runners it's like an addiction so I can see your point. Running is purely for me and my mind only. I also go to the gym and your far more likely to meet someone but I do try to avoid the 'meatpit'💪

nicegentleguy - 11 Feb, 2022 - 11:35PM

I’ve had 3 long term affairs and I find them very energising for me an affair is like a shot in the arm. Never had an affair from IE and don’t really expect this time to be any better. I honestly don’t know what possessed me to believe it would be any different this time around.
I think they are all bored council house wives looking for a guy with money to lift them out of the life with the wife beater £200 for very medeocre chats is really not acceptable

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