Let one's hair down
Full disclosure: I am genuinely a much happier person to be around since having an affair. I've laughed harder, and been more playful then I have in the last decade. Thanks IE for helping me let my hair down.
Can anyone relate?
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Bandboy - 26 Apr, 2022 - 01:28PM
I have always enjoyed my "wanderings". I always look forward to meetings, social or otherwise, it is the flirting and the secrecy. It not an excuse to whine and whinge about ones partner, it is the excitement of being with a new (or in some instances an old) friends. I still occasionally talk with my "friends" even though they are many miles away and many years past as we share nothing but warm and treasured memories.
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Desperated3n - 26 Apr, 2022 - 12:21PM
I think that having an affair definitely raises the spirits, but before embarking on the new path, I suggest that you create a new hobby or pastime that you know your OH is not going to be interested in. But make sure that you regularly invite them to join you. That way you remove suspicion from your movements.
I still prefer to meet new people face to face, but I am sure that IE allows us to ask questions or tell someone your fantasies / kinky ideas easier than asking them in the real world.
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SapioSexy - 21 Apr, 2022 - 11:30AM
I am hoping this kind of thing is what I can find in time! I have enjoyed it previously and really missed it last few years. Find myself again outside being unwanted at home!
Nic70 - 20 Apr, 2022 - 09:23PM
Just wish to echo much of what has been said, yep that smile, that extra warmth making you feel a decade or two younger, fresh and not stale…yes OH and sharp eyed older kids don’t miss a trick.
1516594 - 18 Apr, 2022 - 07:45PM
Good luck @U749! One of the best things for me was that feeling of knowing someone is thinking about you and looking forward to seeing you. It really does put a spring in your step!
Nic70 - 18 Apr, 2022 - 07:21PM
I recognise this. Being on here on and off I have had the good fortune to chat and meet one or two women from different spheres to mine. It has been so enriching and yes it does make life more fulfilling.
1516105 - 18 Apr, 2022 - 05:12PM
I haven't even met the guy I've arranged to see yet, and already I feel happier!! Just to think someone's attracted to me is such a buzz after years with a husband who couldn't care less.
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spod71 - 17 Apr, 2022 - 10:33AM
@Paula99 must admit within the circle of friends I have known try it, it hasn't worked out. Especially the 'young' relationship like you mentioned.
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