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What do we really disclose?

Meeting a new person is always exciting. However most of us are meeting illicitly. What are your boundaries when disclosing personal details? Do we reveal our full names, places of work, give details about our family? What type of information are you willing to share? How much is too much?

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1599994 - 21 Oct, 2023 - 07:39AM

Always honest.

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Paula99 - 21 Oct, 2023 - 06:15AM

When you are in a long-standing relationship/family/kids then you are a natural protector and you hold that dear in your heart and that applies to anyone you meet in work /general life ..
When you get into an affair then your natural thing is to ‘protect ‘ what you have got as affairs impact on your all parts of your life..if anyone tells me you can enter an affair with NSA then they are delusional…

You only share what you need them to know in the early stages of your relationship and if they have any sense they will apply the same principles..
As your relationship gets stronger and you feel comfortable then you automatically share small parts of your life aka ….I had a shit day today/got a flat tyre blah blah blah…
Only when you have a long term affair and you trust the OP wholly and equally then you tend to reveal all but that takes a very special person ….😉

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LadyDe - 20 Oct, 2023 - 11:47PM

I’m way too honest for my own good … but like Jim Carey in Liar Liar …. But equally if not asked I don’t say


1559929 - 20 Oct, 2023 - 12:07PM

It all depends what we want as an individual. If u are looking for a genuine connection and a serious affair then I thinks its better to be genuine from the start. If its a fling then u can limit certain things. As for, dont think I can live pretentious life, I somehow dont think I deserve that, so prefer to be real with someone genuine.

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1601870 - 16 Oct, 2023 - 02:07PM

Be honest from the start, then you won’t have to remember the lies… don’t embellish the profile , or say you are 20 years younger, blonde hair at 70, is unlikely….. face to face can be brutal…….

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George2000 - 14 Oct, 2023 - 08:37PM

For me I try to be honest when I get asked a question but at the same time not give too much away in case things go awry later. I find most people are Ok with that.
In the early stages of an IE relationship I prefer to concentrate on getting to know about the person and not their daily lives.

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FluffyClouds - 14 Oct, 2023 - 02:18PM

Having had a couple of men admit they have tried to find me online by searching for me via my phone number, I'm more inclined to not give too much away in the early weeks. Some take their bat and ball home but that's their problem really.

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1628887 - 12 Oct, 2023 - 10:57AM

I would keep it about me and me alone. No last names or personal info about my family.

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Naughty in NW - 11 Oct, 2023 - 08:05PM

Glass-Half-Fun

I can only speak for myself of course, but I'd prefer to describe it as being cautious rather than suspicious. After all, the vast majority of us on here have a lot to lose if the shit hits the fan. Hence the importance of discretion.

Shag behind the pub ?. Naahh.....not for me. Just want a mutually respectful relationship. Perhaps I've misunderstood your post?

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1627611 - 11 Oct, 2023 - 07:42PM

My flabber is gasted by the comments on here. You’re all so suspicious! I guess if your idea of heaven is a shag behind the pub, then fine, but really?!

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