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1408586 - 09 Oct, 2023 - 10:09AM

I agree legs&eyes. Once I meet someone (never before) I expect transparency on both sides. I’d feel someone didn’t trust me otherwise. And if there is no trust we shouldn’t be sleeping together! Also agree with the cold/anonymous feelings.

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Legs&Eyes - 09 Oct, 2023 - 10:04AM

I like to be transparent, it helps build the trust and lets face it single girls are judged in this situation.. so for me, it helps with that.... but on the flip side I need to trust them too....
Its a 2 way street....it just doesnt work for me personally if I approach it in a cold/anonymous way, would be too much like 'sex with strangers' when I do that (in my head) but all in good time and when appropriate to disclose...I think each situation different

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MrSurfer - 09 Oct, 2023 - 10:02AM

First name, profession and then only personal stuff like hobbies, interests, taste in music/food.
I'd answer basic questions about family/work but do think an IE should be an escape from all of that.

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ClassyLady77 - 09 Oct, 2023 - 09:38AM

I believe in honesty with a affair partner and I expect same in return.. I don’t give out my phone number to second date.. I don’t discuss full name & family etc until second date too..


RULucky., I demand nothing less.. 😂

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1622643 - 09 Oct, 2023 - 09:34AM

First name basis is ok xx

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Lusty40 - 09 Oct, 2023 - 09:21AM

I like to get to know someone a wee bit before meeting. Better sex when there’s a connection. I will listen if his family etc comes into conversation. But I’m not needing to know that. But I do like to know a name that o will be calling out if we do get physical 🤣

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RULucky - 09 Oct, 2023 - 09:09AM

On the first date I bring my driving licence, passport and a recent gas bill, then let them know my mothers maiden name.... I've got nothing to hide..

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imyali76 - 09 Oct, 2023 - 08:55AM

Once a trust is built then details can be shared , I'm sure both parties will feel reluctant to share all the details on the first date

WhatsNewPussycat23 - 09 Oct, 2023 - 08:53AM

It's that fine line between trying to remain discreet, but also not putting off your potential partner by not giving anything away.

I tend to share more. By being disarming, it hopefully shows that I'm genuine.

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