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I've just joined. Please send me as many tips as possible. I have never...

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How much do you actually trust your IE Partner?

I have been fortunate to find a great match on IE. We messaged for a while
and got on...

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Illicit or Not?

So.. what if.. this were NOT Illicit? If we lived in an enlightened age where extra marital...

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Judgement

We all have our preferences and should be able to state them freely, without judgement.
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Drinks on me

Ladies and gentlemen, what is your first date drink of choice?

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Senses.....

If you lost all five senses and could have only TWO back for your next IE, which would it be, and...

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Cardinal Rule

What is the top most cardinal rule in an affair? I think it's: Communication.
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Family tracking apps

My partner has decided to install Life360 on all our phones to track the whereabouts of our...

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More attentive?

I get that feeling of freedom of doing something in secret and knowing that those around me...

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Discretion

Hi Sara,

Any suggestions on the best to keep an affair secret. Where to go ,...

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Communication

I have just started seeing a new IE - how often should I message her inbetween meets? Any advice...

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Attractiveness is...

Men, what do you find attractive...