** LIVE NOW ** Should I or shouldn’t I?

Hi, my wife and are still very much in love and are actually still having good sex but we both...

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Keeping it cool?

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How do you stay desirable?

When you have found your ideal match or that special person on this site, how do you intend to...

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New Year, New Me?

I have decided 2025 is going to be my year! One of my main priorities is to find happiness for...

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‘Ask me anything’

Is something I get regularly, particularly when a conversation may be coming to a natural end....

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Is monogamy unnatural?

I tried to be faithful, for a long time. However, I always, always had the feeling I needed to...

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When should I declare a disability?

When joining IE there are opportunities to declare your age, religion, sex , ethnicity and...

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What about him/her?

Who else finds it off putting to be asked if they are talking to others? How many of you tell the...

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Christmas gift ideas for a distraction…

So, I’ve come up with a plan to make sure my partner’s kept as occupied as...

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When do you know……?

It is so difficult reading between the lines of text messages. Ladies, how do we guys know you...

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Real name vs alias

In the interest of being discreet, I generally do not give out my real name until I really know...

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Hotel Nerves

Have you ever had the experience of an ie having their nerves get the better of them and leave...

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